Beyond Mindset: Why Somatic Work Is the Missing Piece in Money Healing

You can repeat all the affirmations.

You can write the goals, visualize the wealth, recite the mantras.

But if your body doesn’t feel safe to receive, hold, or circulate money, none of it sticks.

Mindset work is important. It plants seeds. It opens doors.

But somatic work, that’s the soil it all grows from.

Because here’s the truth most people miss:

You can’t outthink a nervous system stuck in survival.

The Body Remembers What the Mind Tries to Bypass

We’ve been taught that money is about logic, strategy, and discipline. But money lives in the body as much as it lives in your bank account.

And for so many of us, that body holds fear.

Fear of not having enough.

Fear of losing it all.

Fear of being judged, exposed, taken advantage of, or unsafe.

Fear of failing.

Fear of getting it wrong.

You might not think you’re afraid, but notice what happens the moment you pay a bill, invest in something meaningful, or try to raise your prices.

Does your breath get shallow?

Do you tighten your shoulders, your jaw, your belly?

Do you feel like you’re bracing for something?

That’s not mindset.

That’s your nervous system responding to old neuro tags, those imprints from past financial pain, scarcity, or shame.

Your body is doing its job: protecting you.

But protection is not the same as expansion.

Somatic Expansion Is About Breathing Into the Fear, Not Avoiding It

Expansion doesn’t always feel like ease or lightness at first. Sometimes, it feels like discomfort.

Like sitting with the sensation of scarcity without rushing to fix it.

Like breathing into the place where the fear lives, instead of trying to numb or escape.

Somatic work invites us to stay with the sensation. To get curious about what our body is saying.

To re-pattern the response, not by force, but by presence.

This is the work I had to learn for myself.

When I was in survival, living off of 30% of my income, dipping into investments, and watching debt pile up, mindset didn’t land. My body was on high alert. Everything felt like a threat.

And even now, as a business owner, I still dance between the edges of scarcity and abundance. I’ve had to learn how to feel my way through the valleys and the peaks, how to breathe through fear, stay in my body, and anchor back into trust.

This is the difference between intellectual understanding and embodied transformation.

Your Nervous System Is the Gateway to Wealth

This is the part most people skip, because it’s uncomfortable. It’s much easier to try to outwork it, bypass it, or push through it. But you’ll keep hitting the same ceiling until your body believes it’s safe to go further.

So ask yourself:

• What does safety with money feel like in my body?

• Where do I tighten, shut down, or dissociate around money?

• Can I soften into those places, even slightly?

The goal isn’t to “feel good” all the time. The goal is to stay present through the discomfort, so the pattern can shift.

Try This: A 3-Minute Somatic Practice for Safety + Money

This is a gentle check-in you can do before making a financial decision, spending, saving, or even just looking at your bank account.

1. Sit or lie down comfortably. Close your eyes. Bring your attention to your breath. No need to change it, just notice it.

2. Place one hand on your chest, one on your belly. Can you feel your breath move under your hands? Notice if one area is more tense or restricted.

3. Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of 4. Pause. Exhale gently through your mouth for a count of 6. Do this for 3–5 rounds.

4. Ask yourself gently: What am I feeling in my body right now? What does this moment remind me of? Can I stay with it, even if it’s uncomfortable?

5. Affirm to yourself (silently or out loud): “I am safe in this moment. I can meet this with awareness.” Let this be enough for now. No fixing. Just presence.

This Is Where Mindset Meets the Body

If you’ve tried affirmations, budgeting tools, or manifestation techniques and still feel blocked, this is why. Your body holds your lived experience. It remembers every financial fear, every moment of scarcity, every pattern of shutdown or over-control. The real work begins when we stop bypassing the body and start listening to it. You don’t have to push harder. You don’t have to force a new mindset. You get to gently reconnect with your body and expand your capacity to hold more, with clarity and calm.

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